{#MondayMasterclass} This is what real bondage feels like.

Judy Tsuei

It's been storming all night long in the Philippines to the point that the walls are shaking and the electricity has gone out.

Wilder and I have been loving our time here — she's become best friends with my friend's two children – all of whom don't do media, so what they do all day is draw, chase, read, play, and explore.

We've gone to an organic farm, held snakes and crocodiles, met native tribes people, and even taken a Tae Kwon Do class. And, in a week or so, we'll head over to El Nido, where my friend owns a resort, for Wilder and I to luxuriate in Mother Nature, as we hop from island to island.

It's been an amazing time for me to create more separation from what wasn't working in my life to invite in what is...

I get to have honest conversations with my friend, read through A Course in Miracles and listen to a lot of Abraham Hicks, and be surrounded by precisely the right people to help me leap forward into the next chapter of my life.

For example, my friend's husband not only launched numerous successful entrepreneurial endeavors, he also did PR for Kiva and reworked the strategy for several friends' companies into extremely profitable ventures... like Mixergy.

"When you get to El Nido," my friend said to me, "Talk to my husband. He'll help you figure things out. For now, just take a break. You need a break."

As part of the "figuring out," when I can't sleep, I simply wake up, lie there, and pray.

I pray for guidance.

I pray for forgiveness.

I pray for freedom.

That's when I got an email early this morning from my friend Holly who said, "You won't feel free until your body, at the cellular level, knows that you and Wilder are on secure footing."

And, she's right.

This whole entire experience is a beautiful gift from the Universe to help me finally feel SAFE in the world.

OMG — I literally JUST got that as I was typing this to you.

Holy shit.

Thank you.

What an epic opportunity for me to find my solid footing like never before. To not have to wait for anyone else to save me. 

To be truly free.

I want to share with you an epic Abraham Hicks recording today that might help if you're feeling like you're not "in flow" or keep finding yourself in challenging circumstances with people who leave you feeling anything but stellar.

Click on the image below to listen for yourself — or read on below for the highlights as part of today's #MondayMasterclass... 

I won't be broadcasting live, because we'll be busy exploring more of Palawan. :) 


{#MondayMasterclass}
Here's what real bondage is.

15:00: With each exposure to each thing you don't want, you ask for what you do want. Source energy becomes that. 

15:45: You're feeling the chaos of your split energy, because of the way some people are. And therefore, you don't like them. Be how you want to be. 

16:15: You can't control their behavior. You can't control their upbringing. You can't control the way life touched them. You can't control the teacher they had in the first grade teacher they had all those years ago. You can't control the relationship they had with their family or their lovers. You can't control what happened to them. You can't control who they've become. 

You can't control their connection to their Source. And we promise you, anyone who's behaving really badly is someone not connected to their Source.

Now you're saying, "Your bad behavior is keeping me from being connected to MY Source and it all is contingent on your behavior." 

And we say, "That's BONDAGE in the fullest sense of the word."

What you want to say instead is, "The way I feel is something I'm working to train myself on every day. I'm training myself emotion by emotion into alignment with who I am."

The only way you can uplift the world is by tending to your own vibration, getting in sync with who you are, and radiating it for all to see.

18:00: Don't worry: if you get all tuned in, tapped in, turned on, Law of Attraction will not bring to you who are otherwise.

That's really what's at the heart of this. When you feel bad about something that someone else has got going on, it's usually because your attention to it has it going on within you too. You're not being who you really are. And it feels like they outta do something about it. But, of course, they can't. Only you can.

18:50: This is at the heart of your problem. You want to be understood by people who can't understand. That's true entrapment. Understand me, but if they're in a different vibration, they can't understand you.

So, you're vying for their understanding, rather than THIS understanding. When you reach for the understanding of Source, you'll FEEL GOOD.

Everyone in the world can misunderstand you, but if you're tuned into who you are, you'll feel great.

20:00: Let's say the world is a mixed bag. Let's say you haven't been tending to your vibration, so you can't attract people in alignment, because you're not in alignment. So, you're getting a lot of people who are not in alignment — and you're mixing it up with them, and everything is going crazy.

It's not feeling good, it's not working out.

All that's happening is that you're becoming more sure of what you don't want to ask for what you do want. 

That helps with Step 1 {Contrast Causes You To Ask}. There are a lot of people who are really just there to help you with Step 1 Ask, Step 1 Ask, Step 1 Ask. In fact, you could say in your success of all things, "Thank you everyone who bothered me into asking for more, because if it weren't for how badly you behaved, I wouldn't have known to ask for improvement. 

23:40: Does it make sense to you, because of the relationship you just had, YOU became more. 

When you feel negative emotion, it means the rest of you didn't go along. 

You became more, clearer, surer, wiser, more loving... but sometimes, you stay focused on what caused you to ASK, so you don't let yourself BE it, so you don't close that gap. 

That is what is responsible for every negative emotion... and everything that goes wrong in your experience is only because you didn't keep up with you.

Eventually, you'll get to the point where you can recognize that it only feels wrong, because it isn't right enough.


25:05: Everything you feel is a relationship issue. It's the relationship between Law of Attraction's response to your most expanded being and Law of Attraction's response to who you are now. Period. That's all it ever is.

So, as Life causes you to expand, you've gotta keep up with it. And, if you don't keep up with it, you don't feel good.

You can use every excuse in the world to explain why you don't feel good. You can blame it on others, you can blame it on past lives; you can blame it on your mother or the government. 

But there is only one thing that's responsible for you not feeling good and having what you want and that is you're focused differently than who you have become.

If Life hadn't caused you to become more, you wouldn't feel bad in not being it.

These people that are bothering you so much are responsible for expansion; but then you're using them as your excuse for not taking the expansion. 

And that's why you're so mad at them.


Be the most present version of yourself and be free of any story that's holding you back. 

Feel into your greatness. Find your freedom. Find your safety. It's what I'm learning to do, too!

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Love,
Judy

P.S. Remember, start binge-listening to the Wild Hearted Words podcast today! Click here to listen.

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